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What happened at Kinky Tapas in Oakland?

The PREMIERE Kinky Tapas retreat was SO special.



Highlights:

  • Two gorgeous dungeons where we spent most of our active learning and hands-on practice time.

  • Hands-on skills in electroplay, genital torment tools, impact play, switching, dominance and submission, strap-on sex, anal play, restraints and more.

  • Erotic personas were birthed and surprised all of us!

  • Everyone got a Kinky Kit stuffed full of kinky tools and toys and a Kinky Tapas Workbook.

  • Vetting, community connecting and partner searching skills.

  • Small-group vibes - we shared meals together, decided on what skills to focus on together, supported their fellow kinksters in their learning and shared ideas based on their lived experiences.

  • Powerful exercises for practising confidence, community and communication.

  • Sexy and erotically empowered photos were taken.

  • Shrimp became a safeword for...reasons.

  • Luna got flogged a lot.

  • Marla got to staple someone with her surgical stapler and evil laughed with joy anytime someone mentioned pain.

Who knew I'd develop a captured-unicorn-in-pleather kink at Kinky Tapas? 🤷🏽‍♀️🦄 - Luna

Kinky Tapas was a dream come